Monday May 21, 2012 at 15:32

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Anonymous asked: whenever my boyfriend and i have sex doggy style i can never get off. but the thing is that the whole time it feels better than when we do it any other way. like to the point that sometimes i have to stop and just take his thrusts cuz it is just so asdkfjasdlks. but then I can never finish. sometimes i dont mind bc everything else was so great i dont really need that O but then he always feels bad the he gets off an i dont. is this normal, weird, is there something we can do to help me reach O?

- Livvy

It is perfectly fine/normal to feel satisfied from sex without having experienced orgasm. If you’ve enjoyed yourself then that’s the main thing.

I’m not really sure what you mean in the first part of your message. If you don’t enjoy doggy then just do another position, if you do enjoy it but can’t get off from it then why not just change positions to one you know gets you off when you feel that you’re getting closer to orgasm.

Combining different types of stimulation is the best way to help get closer to orgasm, e.g. rubbing your breasts, clit or wherever else gets you off most, at the same time as penetration.

Friday May 18, 2012 at 18:46

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Anonymous asked: Hi Jason! Me and my boyfriend have a slight problem. I broke my leg and am currently wearing a cast from toe to knee. We would like to continue having sex though. Do you know any good positions?

- Livvy

Wow, I really like this question haha! It’s making me all imaginative… Sorry to hear about your leg though :(

I’d say on your back with your broken leg flat, the other leg lifted to allow deeper penetration or tilt you to one side of necessary. Also, if you’re comfortable with sex outside the bedroom, if you bent over a kitchen table to support your weight so that you don’t have to stand on the broken leg.

Try here for more ideas: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml :)

Monday May 14, 2012 at 14:36

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Anonymous asked: so this may sound like a joke, but i genuinely really need help. i lost my virginity yesterday and i was obviously not amazing, my boyfriend's done once or twice but didn't really know what he was doing either. i just don't understand how you're supposed to move and how you're supposed to get a steady movement going, i know this sounds dumb but literally like what do you do? and what are ways that you can make sex more memorable/not just thrusting

- Livvy

Practice and communication. Don’t be afraid to say, “can we try something else”, guide each other, be comfortable with each other. Don’t think about it too hard, sex is something that everyone has the natural capacity to do. It’s one of the most instinctive things built into you before you even understood it.

Get acquainted with some positions you fancy trying here: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml

Saturday May 12, 2012 at 17:00

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Anonymous asked: so this is a multiple part question. last night I lost my virginity to my boyfriend [and he lost his to me]. it hurt a lot at first but I eventually got over the pain and really enjoyed it. I'm on the pill and we used a condom, non latex though because I have an allergy. however, he couldn't feel anything because of the condom and ended up not enjoying it. Are there any non latex condoms that increase sensitivity? or if there's any positions that might feel better for him? thank you!

- Livvy

Try ribbed/ dotted condoms. Condoms that are pre-lubed inside. Just look for “Pleasure for him” condoms.

In terms of sex positions… Try some of these, (this website isn’t “porn” as such but just like, diagrams of positions) play around with the deep penetration ones until you find one you both like :)

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml

Tuesday January 31, 2012 at 15:36

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Anonymous asked: Hello! Love this blog, keep it up! So my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time soon (and both of us are virgins as well, but that's not really what I'm asking about). He's about 6 feet and I'm 5 feet exactly. We're kinda curious what positions would be good for the "really short girl/really tall guy" relationship...? Is it better just to play around and experiment?

-Kristin

yeah you could play around and experiment. It should be fun for the both of you. If he’s strong enough, he can lift you up while he’s standing, that could be good. Or he could put you up against a wall and you could do it like that. You could be on top of him while he lays down, doggy works just as well. Sex works fine no matter the height difference,  it’s just a little more difficult to do it standing up. Just play around. 

Monday January 23, 2012 at 0:26

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Anonymous asked: Hi, my boyfriend and I have had shower sex a couple of times, but we have a few difficulties getting into a good position. But we usually do it with him behind me while I bend forward, but this is sometimes quite hard since he is taller than me. And we have also tried it with him sitting on the floor with me on top, but this is hard to do because he has a very small shower space. Any good sex positions (or ways to make it easier) to use whilst in the shower (considering the lack of space)?

-Kristin

You could try kneeling on the floor, while he kneels too and do doggy style. That way you can steady yourself with your hands. 

There’s not too much you can do in the shower, if you have a really tiny shower. You just kind of have to make the best of it and it may just be really tight and have to deal with it. 

Thursday January 12, 2012 at 18:31

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Anonymous asked: Tips on how to ride cowgirl? My guy wants to try it I never have done cowgirl before but he has. Can you tell me how to get him in me and then what to do?

-Courtney

Just do what comes naturally. You can rock back and forth or bounce up and down. (Try not to go too high up though, or he could fall out. Not fun.) Experiment with it a bit, see what feels better for both of you. And have fun with it.

Monday January 09, 2012 at 0:54

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Anonymous asked: Whats the best way to attempt 69 for the first time? My boyfriend has done it before but I haven't.

-Kristin

Lay down on top of him, suck his dick. Spread your legs, and Have your pelvis towards his face so he can eat you out. You’re boyfriend has done it before so it shouldn’t be too much of a challenge.. He can guide you if you need help.

It’s not that hard, it just may be awkward at first if you’re not used to having people so close to you like that. 

Sunday January 08, 2012 at 20:17

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Anonymous asked: Okay so my boyfriend have been having sex for awhile now and we do fine in missionary, but when we try me being on top I just can't seem to do it right because he always slips out or its hard to mount him (size isn't the issue). Any tips or suggestions for it to go smoother so that I can ride him?

-Kristin

When you’re ontop, rock back and forth, and gyrate. Don’t bop up and down with your pelvis because that might make it easier to slip out. Ask him to put his hands on your ass and help guide you if you need it, that could help too.

Sunday January 08, 2012 at 19:21

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Anonymous asked: What is the best position for a female orgasm? Or to better hit the g-spot?

-Kristin

On top may be good for some, cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. Also, a variation on missionary works. Just kick your legs up or spread them, and angle your pelvis upwards, and have him thrust deep. Slow, or fast but make sure it’s deep. The angle should make it easier to hit the g-spot. 

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