Anonymous asked: Is it weird that I sometimes watch other females masturbate online just so I can experiment and see what feels good? I get into such a routine, I get bored sometimes.
- Livvy
It’s not strange at all in my opinion. I don’t really watch porn personally but there is nothing wrong with getting “inspiration” from porn if that’s what helps you or turns you on. If you’re getting bored then go for whatever helps.
Anonymous asked: what are your best tips for female masturbation?
- Livvy
Relax, make sure you’re plenty wet, use lube if you have to/ it you’re using any sex toys. Get a vibrator or use water pressure if you want to change things up a bit. Combine different types of stimulation (breasts, vagina, clitoris, anywhere else that turns you on). Most women find that clitoral stimulation gives them the most pleasure. Practice plenty so you come to learn what you like.
And most of all don’t try and worry about orgasming too much, as this will only make it harder to get there. You don’t have to orgasm to be satisfied and over-thinking it will prevent it. Just enjoy yourself, I guess, and do what feels right/natural.
Anonymous asked: Whenever I touch myself, I feel like I get really close to an orgasm but I always pull away when I am, I can't stop it and I was wondering if there were any tips on how to maybe not pull away? I've not had sex yet, as well.
- Livvy
It’s a tough question, because at the end of the day all you can do is just… not pull away. Try to keep relaxed but focussed. If you lose the sensation, but still feel unsatisfied, then just keep trying if you can. If you use a vibrator that may help as it keeps a steady rhythm.
Or, get someone to tie you up so you can’t pull away and then get them do it for you… :D
Anonymous asked: every time ive tried to finger myself it hurts to insert 1 finger . I just usually rub my clit but i wanna try to insert my fingers . ive never used tampons & im a virgin
- Livvy
Try using lube to make entering easier. Stimulating your clit is also a good idea as it adds natural wetness, so keep doing that. You may find that you prefer clitoral stimulation anyway, many women do. Hope this helps!
Anonymous asked: I'm completely new at this kinda stuff so i'm guessing i'm kinda tight. Anyways, my boyfriend, whenever he fingers me, it doesn't feel good unless he's right on my clit. if he kinda just fingers me it like hurts a lot. What should I do? Is it something wrong with me? Are there anyways I can get looser or for it not to hurt as much?
- Livvy
Most women find that clitoral stimulation does more for them, because it has the highest concentration of nerve endings in the entrie body, therefore is most sensitive to touch.
Have lots of kissing/interaction before he fingers you. The more aroused you are the better, as the vaginal muscles will cause the vagina to widen and you will become wetter. Use plenty of lube as well.
Remember to relax and communicate - don’t be afraid to say/show him what feels bad or good. It all helps you to learn about each other.
Anonymous asked: Is it bad or harmful to mostly masturbate with an electric toothbrush?
- Livvy
If it is clean and you cover in in a condom, then theoretically it won’t be harmful as long as it isn’t causing any pain.
But if I were you I’d invest in a vibrator. If you aren’t covering it in a condom / you’re using it for both your teeth and masturbation, you could easily cause an infection in your mouth (it is possible to get trush in your mouth, particularly) or more likely an infection in your vagina. Especially if it has ever broken the skin. Vibrators are safer because they’re designed to be safe for masturbation, unlike toothbrushes, and if you keep it clean there’s a far lower risk of cross-contamination.
Anonymous asked: is it normal that i am a virgin female and I'm 15 and i like to watch porn and finger myself?
- Livvy
yes.
Anonymous asked: As I was enjoying solo sexy time today, I was getting close to climax and all of a sudden it stopped [like always]. I didn't think anything of it, but when I looked at my sheets, there was a decent sized wet spot there. And why can I never climax?? Usually, I just pull away, but I didn't this time. I kept on going, but it went away :(
- Livvy
Sounds like you “squirted”. It’s the female equivalent of ejaculation (although obviously not the same stuff)! Not all women can do this and some guys find it to be a really big turn on. It’s basically just the natural lubricant your body produces coming out in one go instead of gradually. Unlike male ejaculation, it may or may not accompany orgasm.
It sounds like you are one of those people who takes a long time and really peaks and crests without actually orgasming. It may be down to nerves or the fact you are just focussing too hard on trying to orgasm. Basically, even after you lose the “wave”, keep going, the wave may come and go several times before you are able to orgasm but you’ll get there eventually.
Hope this helps, good luck!
Anonymous asked: everytime my boyfriend fingers me it feels soo good. almost too good tbh. like, after a few minutes it gets too intense and i just can't handle it so most of the time i have to push his hand away. it really sucks because i want to orgasm but i just can't since it gets too intense for me. what's wrong with me?
- Livvy
I just answered this like a few questions down, go have a look :)
There is nothing wrong with you.
taintedlove13 asked: I have no idea if you've answered this already, but here it goes: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a little more and we've had sex since the beginning. I've never been able to have an orgasm through penetration, but when I masturbate it does happen. We've tried the clitoral stimulation, lots of foreplay and stuff, but all I feel is an orgasm building up but nothing happens and then it just goes away. Im on a sex abstinance sorta thing to see what happens after 30 days. Any suggestions?
- Livvy
Could help to increase your sensitivity, yes. Just remember that when you go back to sex, your muscles will need you to go slowly and work back into it gently.
Similar question answered below explains why orgasms by penetration are more difficult to achieve.
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