Anonymous asked: Hi, so when a guy cums after you give him a handjob what do you do? I feel so ignorant for asking this but do you just like let go?
- Livvy
Yeah you can just let go. It is usual for men to lose their erection after orgasm anyway.
Thursday May 31, 2012 at 10:53
1 noteSunday May 27, 2012 at 5:06
Anonymous asked: Ugh, I'm frustrated. Today I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the second time, and he still didnt cum. I gave him head for a good 10-15 minutes and had to stop because i could hear his dad getting near (he checked in like a minute later). Isnt that a pretty good amount of time, shouldn't he cum?
- Livvy
No, some guys can take hours to orgasm from head.
There’s no fixed time that he will last, it will change each time. Don’t get frustrated, just accept it, because it will ruin your enjoyment if you’re getting pissed off that he hasn’t reached orgasm after 10 minutes every time.
Friday May 25, 2012 at 16:28
Anonymous asked: is it normal that after i cum on the sheet there will be a yellowish part
- Livvy
Yep, when it dries it might seem darker in colour. If that’s what you mean.
Friday May 25, 2012 at 15:39
erikelektric asked: Got one of those 'is this normal' questions. I've had a few girlfriends, but none of them have effected me quite like this new girl I have me. When we start fooling around things fell so much more intense than usual, sometimes my body shakes or I shudder. After we finish with being intimate sometimes I find it quite hard to stand or move as well as feeling a tingling all over my body. I need a few minutes to recuperate before I can talk straight let alone do anything else. Is this normal?
- Livvy
Sex = hormones and hormones control emotional responses. If you feel that sex with this girl is particularly intense, it’s just because she’s very good at arousing you for whatever reason, causing bigger floods of hormones, giving more pronounced emotional responses.
Tingling or shaking after sex is perfectly normal especially if you’ve been “working hard”. There’s nothing to worry about, as long as you’re enjoying yourself, that’s the main thing :)
Wednesday May 23, 2012 at 15:09
Anonymous asked: How long does the average male last before he ejaculates? I'm a girl, and my boyfriend lasts about a little more than two hours sometimes. Is this good? bad? normal?
- Livvy
Varies massively. I don’t know an average to be honest. Depends on the type of stimulation.
That is normal, no worries.
Monday May 21, 2012 at 15:25
Anonymous asked: I've been dating my boyfriend for two years, and I am able to make him cum really easily when giving him a blowjob and he always cums during sex, but I CANNOT make him cum giving him a handjob? How do I get this right? I'm so confused.
- Livvy
Maybe he just feels more stimulated from oral/sex.
An easy way to tell if you are doing it right is when you say “Am I doing this right?” and he says “Yes” or “No”.
Communicate, get him to guide you. He knows how to make himself cum so ask him to share with you how he gets the right rhythm/speed/etc for him.
Sunday May 20, 2012 at 17:10
5 notesAnonymous asked: Is it normal that cum turns me on? (I'm a girl).
- Livvy
Very normal. I’d say it’s a big turn on for me personally. Some studies have shown that seeing cum and swallowing it release dopamine, a “happy” neurotransmitter.
I just see it as a really gratifying way of knowing I’ve done things right. Giving others pleasure can be just as big a turn-on as receiving so yes, normal!
Saturday May 19, 2012 at 15:38
2 notesAnonymous asked: why does my boyfriend gets soft really easy?
- Livvy
Many men experience some form of erectile disfunction at some point in their lives, in a phase that may pass on its own or may require medical attention. It can be caused by stress, anxiety or just nerves. Some diabetics also commonly experience ED.
Using a cock ring can prolong an erection/ make the erection harder. You can also get variants which may have vibrators attached or something like that to make things a bit more interesting and pleasurable for both partners.
Make sure that a) your partner knows that it’s nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about, and shouldn’t be offended by the idea of a cock ring and b) you know that its not “your fault” as I have heard women say that they think they aren’t arousing their partner enough. This simply isn’t the cause!
Saturday May 19, 2012 at 15:27
3 notesAnonymous asked: So, I gave my boyfriend a blow job yesterday. It was nothing new, since I've done it before. But I usually never let him finish like that so he doesn't cum in my mouth. Yesterday, I let him. He said it really turned him on. But it tasted SOOOOOOOOO gross. & I got a tummy ache after. I have no idea how I can do it again. Is there a way to make it taste better ?
- Livvy
The tummy ache was probably unrelated, literally never heard of that before. There’s no way to significantly change the taste other than completely changing your diet for a prolonged period of time (increasing fruit intake, decreasing alcohol intake and not smoking). Changing these things for a day or two probably won’t make a difference.
Either don’t take it in your mouth or just keep a bottle of water in your room to wash the taste away. It won’t hurt you, but don’t feel forced to do it if you really hate it.
Saturday May 19, 2012 at 5:20
Anonymous asked: Ok so yesterday I gave my boyfriend a handjob for the first time and his cum shot out like a freaking fountain. Also, a lot came out of it. I was covered with it and so was he. Is that normal? Because I seriously don't want that to happen every time.
- Livvy
Uh. Well, yeah. It’s pretty normal. You might just have to get used to it.
Some guys will cum more than others, and the amount each guy ejaculates changes day to day - how aroused they are, when the last time they came was, even things like the temperature of the room you’re in can affect it.
Try not to be freaked out by it. To me, I find that my way of knowing that I’ve done everything right. Knowing you’ve given him the ultimate form of pleasure can be a massive turn on if you let yourself enjoy it.
Sex can be a pretty messy business and you either have to learn to tolerate it or enjoy the messiness of it. But either of those might come naturally to you at some point.
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