Questions Advice & Requests.

Anonymous asked: Do guys like it when you touch their butt?

- Livvy

Some guys do, some guys don’t.

Just go for it, most guys will tell you when they don’t like something if they’re comfortable around you. Or ask them personally.

Anonymous asked: what is it like to be strangled during sex? i'm sorry if this is stupid, how is he supposed to do it? it sounds like something i'd like to try but i should be informed about before doing....

-Jason

Some girls that I’ve been with before have asked me to do this and it was a little strange for me at first. The main concern is having the person know when to stop and just how hard they should before it’s a little “too much”.  

Anonymous asked: My boyfriend asked me to "titty fuck" him the other day... What?! How?! D=

-Jason

Basically, put your boobs together and have him “fuck” the space between them.
Don’t know, I was never too into that idea.  

Anonymous asked: What are some really good ways to make a guy turned out and teased while making out & doing foreplay?

- Livvy

Erogenous zones are the specific body areas that each person can utilize in order to get “turned on”. Each person has different areas they are more sensitive to.

Some of the most significant erogenous zones are the genitals (no points for guessing that one), the lower stomach/navel, fingers, and the base of the neck. If you are with one partner, learn which their favourite zones are, just ask them. If you aren’t with one specific partner, you can still ask, but if you feel uncomfortable doing that then it’s best to go with the lower stomach and base of the neck zones.

Many people report that being stroked or licked just below their belly button causes immediate arousal, sometimes even equal to that of direct genital stimulation. That’s why holding someone by the waist whilst kissing and lightly squeezing/ moving your hands up and down can really get your partner hot under the collar.

And speaking of the collar… The skin above your collar bones and the at the base of the neck have plenty of nerve endings, again most people respond well to being lightly stroked or licked there, or even bitten, hence the popularity of “love-bites”.

If you know your partner well, teasing can be really good fun, since you can be quite accurate in stimulating them towards orgasm, then dropping to a lower level of stimulation just as they are peaking, which causes a prolonged period of sexual pleasure and may increase the intensity of the orgasm when they finally reach it (it may even be overwhelming).

In guys, the best way of doing this is stimulation of different parts of the penis. For example, if you’re giving oral, the most nerve endings are around the head of the penis, so focussing on that area with your mouth whilst stimulating the shaft with your hands will get him aroused very quickly, and when he is close to orgasm, moving back to gently licking the shaft will cause a “plateau”, and this can be repeated to really tease him.

Hope this helps a bit… and have fun!

Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I have had sex a couple times and we've done everything together sexually. The last few times he's fingered me i've been bleeding. I'm not sure why. Help! It's not like period blood and it stops by the end of the night or by the time I wake up the next morning. It's not like he's doing it that hard so i'm confused. I need help.

-Kristin

He could be cutting you with his fingernails. It happens to me every time I get fingered too. It sucks haha. You could be getting stretched out too if this is your first few times as well. Or he could be hitting your cervix, though it seems unlikely. I”m guessing it’s because he’s cutting you very lightly and it’s bleeding, and also because it’s your first few times. remember he is going back and forth very rapidly inside a sensitive area, and our fingernails are pretty sharp.

Anonymous asked: hey! love the blog.. i just have a little question i'm kind of stuck on. i really want to be more dominate with my boyfriend, but i'm not exactly sure how. i know this probably doesn't matter but i'm only 5' feet and he's about 6'feet so obviously he is way stronger than me.. but could you please give me some suggestions on how to dominate him!? thanks so much <3

-Kristin

Just be sensual, be aggressive. It doesn’t matter that he’s taller than you, if you give him the right mood and vibes then he’ll most likely get that you’re trying to dominate him and he’ll be lenient and will let you push him around. I mean it’s not like you’ll be able to pick him up and slam him on the bed, but you could push him up against the walls, rip his pants off.. Or push him on the bed, and push him down and kiss him, basically ravish him. Tear off his clothes, push him down, show him you want him. That’ll most likely turn him to jelly and you won’t have to worry about much. 

Anonymous asked: How to kindly explain to my boyfriend to not keep jack hammering my pussy each time he fingers me? I don't want to embarrass him but there are times where I'm so close to coming because of the nice pace he's going at and I'll moan "That's nice" or "Mmm so good" and then he'll start going way too hard and then I lose my orgasm.

-Kristin

Say, “Keep at that pace.” Not that hard. Simple. Just tell him to stay at the pace he’s at. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want..

Anonymous asked: so me and my boyfriend have done everything but have sex. im a virgin, he isnt and he understands how i want to wait. hes not going to let us have sex until he knows im ready. we do a lot of oral, i give him head, he'll finger me or eat me out. but i feel like there is so much more he can do for me and all i can do is either suck his dick or give him a hand job. i was just wondering if you could suggest anything else i could do for him to turn him on, either with or without close. doesnt matter.

-Jason

With or without clothes?
You can tease him. Give him a lap dance. Wear something sexy and give him head, or tie him to the bed and do so. 

Anonymous asked: Every time my boyfriend fingers me, I don't know if he's doing it too hard or what.. but after a while I start getting really sore and get like.. swollen .. and it lasts for a couple hours afterwards... Is there a way I can get him to slow down or something? I wouldn't know what to say to him...

-Kristin

He’s probably doing it too hard. Just tell him to slow it down and stop stabbing you in the vagina.

Also if he has long fingernails that could be a problem. tell him to clip them and file them a little so they aren’t so sharp. There’s nothing wrong with telling him it hurts. Don’t put yourself through pain.