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Anonymous asked: how do i make my boyfriend cum faster during a blowjob? it gets a bit tiring and i was wondering if theres anything i can do to speed up the process hahaha

- Livvy

Combine different types of stimulation (e.g. whilst sucking, use your hands on his shaft or balls, stroke his stomach or legs, etc).

Anonymous asked: last saturday i gave my boyfriend a bj for the first time, i was drunk but i do remember most of it. it was fairly easy because it was a party setting and it wasnt awkward, we just kinda went back to the party after. im scared to give him a bj sober though, im fairly anxious that its going to be awkward afterwards or ill be thinking too much (because ill be sober). help?

-Jason

It’s a blowjob, you’re not going off naked in public.
It won’t be awkward.  

Anonymous asked: i just found out that my boyfriend like to have his balls licked and i would like to please him, what are some useful tips you might be able to give me? thanks

- Livvy

Use your tongue to massage them, make little circles with the tip of your tongue, brush them lightly with your lips. If he’s happy to tell you what he likes then just ask what he likes and then give it a go as long as you’re happy with it.

Anonymous asked: I know this is a stupid question. But how the fuck do you give a guy a blowjob? I literally know nothing..

- Livvy

It’ll come naturally :)

You might want to start somewhere else, like inside the legs or on the tummy and kiss or lick gently towards his penis to tease him a bit. Use your tongue to lick up and down his shaft to start with. Then you could take him all in your mouth and move your mouth up and down in a rhythm. You might want to put his hand on your head or something so he can help you find the right rhythm. As you’re moving your mouth up and down the shaft, be sure to keep your teeth out the way and to stimulate the head by changing your tongue movements, by flicking your tongue backwards and forwards on the head it will make it more interesting as the underside of the head is the most sensitive/ nerve-packed area. If he’s too big for your mouth, just get his dick wet and work on the head and use your hands to move up and down the shaft, like a hand job. Or you can use your hands anyway, or gently cup/ rub his balls at the same time. Don’t forget that you’re allowed to ask if he’s enjoying it and to communicate to find out what he likes best. Don’t try talking with it in your mouth though… haha!

This all makes it sound much more complicated than it is, though. Just enjoy it and you will do fine :)

Anonymous asked: Just on a note to a girl who talked about giving a blowjob: swallowing semen can cause stomach aches, because semen isn't actually very easily digestible and it just upsets your stomach a little or something like that. I'm not entirely sure WHY it is that way, but I've gotten the same thing every time. It's uncomfortable, but shouldn't be unmanageable. The taste... Yeah. It's not good and it's probably never gonna be. If it's really too gross, just don't swallow. Oh and Livvy - great work. :)

- Livvy

Thankyou! I’m glad to know someone thinks I’m doing a decent job :D

Thanks for sharing, as I have never heard of this problem before. At least the previous reader knows that they aren’t alone in this problem (albeit rare). However, semen is perfectly digestible, if you are having problems it’s more likely to be due to an allergy.

If I may explain why, the main components of semen are as follows:

• citric acid and vitamin C, fructose, and some other sugars (found in many fruits and some veg - nothing that would cause problems there unless you are allergic to fruits).
• Enzymes and other proteins (found in meat, fish, eggs etc. Enzymes are just a specific type of protein used in bodily reactions so they’re present throughout your body and are constantly being broken down and reformed)
• Free amino acids (these are the base units that make up proteins - so imagine a pre-digested protein, already broken down, so again, no issues there unless allergies) These are also alkaline (neutralise the acidic conditions inside the vagina to prevent sperm from being damaged) so are unlikely to cause heartburn like symptoms that I’ve read some people online blaming on swallowing.
• phosphorylcholine, tiny molecule found in cell membranes
• prostaglandin, lipid (fat) based molecule that acts as a sort of hormone, found throughout the body and involved with many bodily reactions, can only bind to specific target cells so only affects the tissue it’s created for
• Salt (NaCl) potassium, and zinc. Metal ions are easily absorbed and as you know NaCl is present in nearly every food we eat.

So I expect you have an allergy to something in the semen. This may be especially significant if your partner has eaten a lot of something/ eaten something recently that you are allergic to. It is possible to have semen allergies in both males and females but they are more often seen as a result of sexual intercourse.

If you know of any existing allergies, ask your partner to try and cut them out of his diet for a short time before you are likely to be getting together. You may want to go to a doctor to get a semen allergy test or general allergy test to try and identify the source of the discomfort. Hope this helps! :)

Anonymous asked: Last night at a party i gave my boyfriend head for the first time. We were in the bathroom and i think i was sucking his dick for about 10 minutes (I was drunk hahaha) and someone knocked on the door so we kinda had to leave. Then we found another empty room and i gave him head for about 5 minutes maybe and again someone knocked on the door. Anyways he sounded like he was enjoying it but he didnt cum. Was it just not enough time or what? Was i doing something wrong?

- Livvy

Probably just the interruptions. I’m sure it was fine, if he said he enjoyed it then he probably wouldn’t lie about that :) I’ve found that most guys I’ve spoken to say they would rather tell a girlfriend if she’s not doing it quite right than keep it a secret because they want to help her to do it right.

Anonymous asked: I really want to give my boyfriend head but I have a small mouth and a bit of lockjaw so I can't open my mouth very far, almost certain that I wouldn't be able to fit his penis in my mouth (especially with my lips around my teeth). Is there anything I can do? Do you think he'd get impatient with me?

- Livvy

Lockjaw? That could be really serious, I would go see a doctor or a dentist about that if you haven’t already.

In terms of having a small mouth… You’d be surprised, I worried about the same thing and it all turned out fine! You don’t need to put your lips over your teeth either, it’s really not that hard once he’s inside your mouth to keep your teeth out the way. If you’re really that worried, just start off by using your tongue outside of your mouth, licking him and using your hands to keep the movement going.

I don’t know if he’d get impatient with you, most guys I know are pretty happy to get head, but I don’t know your boyfriend. If he’s not a dickhead then I’m sure he won’t mind you working your way into it for the first time.