Saturday June 02, 2012 at 4:35

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Anonymous asked: this can be answered by a girl or a guy i dont really care but this is awkward. basically my boyfriend and i are planning on having sex soon and he wants to do anal later on and that makes me uncomfortable because i have an anal tag (like a skin tag) and i feel like its a massive turn off. he says he'll find me attractive no matter what but im afraid to show him or tell him.

- Livvy

Only do anal if you are comfortable with it. Don’t use your skin tag as an excuse if you don’t want to do it, be straight up and honest about it.

If you do want to try anal then don’t worry about a little skin tag, it really doesn’t matter as long as you are going extremely slowly and using loads of lube. If he says he finds you attractive no matter what then he means it.

Saturday May 26, 2012 at 16:38

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Anonymous asked: Why is anal so taboo?

- Livvy

Is it? I guess it’s just not as conventional because less people enjoy it. Which maybe makes the people who do enjoy it feel self-conscious or more reluctant to talk about it. They shouldn’t be though, you like what you like and shouldn’t be ashamed of any aspect of your sexual personality.

I wouldn’t say it’s necessarily taboo but I know what you mean, people talk about it less. I haven’t had any questions about it, at least. But I wouldn’t be great at answering them anyway haha.

Tuesday January 31, 2012 at 13:53

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Anonymous asked: What would you suggest for a girl that's wanting to try anal but has never had anything up her ass?

-Jason

Well, for one. Be relaxed and don’t pressure things to go faster than they should. With anal, especially first times, you have to ease into it and be aware that it will hurt. You just kind of have to go on with it. Make sure to be properly lubricated and everything of the sort. Enemas are good in order to avoid after-anal “occurances” and the possibility of..well.. you know. 

Thursday January 26, 2012 at 12:36

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Anonymous asked: do guys like anal or oral better?

-Jason

People, stop asking questions like these.
I don’t know why guys usually like. I know what some guys may like, but it’ varies entirely.

I personally dislike anal, immensely.  

Monday January 09, 2012 at 16:35

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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend really wants to do anal. . . The thing is, we've tried several times because I want to do something for him. Every time we try, I am in so much pain it is unbelievable.. pain doesn't usually bother me but I usually end up on the floor crying. We've tried fingers and always use tons of lube but it doesn't work. Any suggestions?

-Courtney

If it’s really that bad, just don’t do it. Anal sex isn’t like vaginal sex. He’s not gonna thrust a few times and all of a sudden the pain will go away. But if you absolutely refuse to give up, the key is to relax. If you can’t relax then don’t even bother. Make him go as slow as possible to stretch you out enough for him to be able to get it in. Have him play with your clit while he does this, it’ll make it easier to take. Good luck.

Tuesday January 03, 2012 at 22:01

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Anonymous asked: I really want to try anal, and we agreed that he will use fingers first, then his dick, and we are goigng to buy some lube. I am going to make sure it is right before I go to the bathroom. But when he fingered me before in the bum it felt like there might be stuff but i just went that morning. what are the chances of getting poop on his dick or fingers? i would die of embarrassment.

-Kristin

I don’t think it’s a good idea to do it before you go to the bathroom.. That might be bad. I think it’s a good idea to do it AFTER you’ve gone, that way you’ve cleaned up anything and don’t risk letting anything go, if you catch my drift.. 

Chances aren’t high, but it can happen. I mean, you do shit out of there. If he’s willing to put his dick up your ass he should deal with the consequences of possibly getting poop on his dick, though. Don’t be embarrassed, it most likely won’t happen to you if you clean up. 

Tuesday January 03, 2012 at 21:43

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Anonymous asked: this question is for any girl available to answer :) but my bf and i have tried to do anal sex and it just hurt sooooo bad for me that i end up in tears. what are some ways/positions it wont hurt? thanks!

-Kristin

Doggy is a good position to start. USE LUBE. I cannot stress this enough.. Use fucking lube. If you’re allergic to most lubes find one that you aren’t allergic to and use it, because you’re gonna need it. Don’t let him just shove it in there. Ease it in, slowly. After it’s in all the way don’t let him start thrusting like normally, go in and out slowly. 

Tuesday January 03, 2012 at 19:03

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Anonymous asked: For Jason. Why do guys want to do anal? Like, I guess what I'm asking is, is it tighter or something?

-Jason 

I guess it’s because it’s just something out of the ordinary, something that’s said to feel god for us as the hole is tighter. I mean, it does feel better but for the most part, anal doesn’t turn me on.  

Saturday May 21, 2011 at 20:35

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mrs-wsmith-deactivated20120424 asked: So me and my boyfriend are really wanting to try anal, do you have any specific tips for both myself and him for our first time?

-April
I’ve never personally tried anal myself, I just had a back door slip in during some really rough sex. But I have gotten PLENTY of tips from other people, because I do want to try anal in the future.

The tip I get the most from numerous people, is use lube. Your asshole is considerably tighter than your vagina, and you need to really loosen it up before anything can go in. If you guys have a toy of some sorts, lube the toy up, along with your ass. He can even use his fingers if he’s comfortable enough. If so, have him lube his fingers as well. You want to be really relaxed as well. If you’re nervous and tense, it’s only going to make you tighter and will make it harder for penetration.

Work up from fingers, to toys, etc. If he’s using fingers, have him use one, then two, then three. Then move onto the toy. You need to allow yourself time to relax, become used to being stretched and get used to the pain. Because it does hurt like hell, but not for long. Eventually the pain fades and you’re both feeling pretty fucking good.

As for positions, most people like to start out on their back at first. That way they can spread their legs as far as they go, lift them up and have their knees touching their chest. This allows the guy to enter slowly, and for the girl to control how fast paced things are. Don’t be afraid to tell him to go super slow, stop and let you take a breathe, and then proceed.

I hope this helps!

Monday May 02, 2011 at 16:02

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Anonymous asked: This is really awkward but I wanna suggest like anal play to my boyfriend. Like me fingering his ass or something. But I don't know how he'll react :/ or how to say it to him. I just know that I tried it with an ex and he loved it and it was very rewarding for me. I'm not saying he'll definitely like it too but I'd like to at least try it with him. I'm fine if he doesn't wanna try as well though but I'd really like to mention it. Any tips please? :) thankyou, love the blog :D

-April
All it takes is a simple question. I highly doubt he’s going to think you’re some freak for even suggesting it. A lot of guys actually want to try it out, but they’re afraid they’ll seem “gay” if they do it.

Some of my most straight guy friends have tried it before, during sex and just with themselves- and they absolutely love it. Just ask him, it’s not too hard. It’ll be a tad weird at first, but once you get it out of the way and talk it out, I bet he’ll be down to try it.

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