Anonymous asked: After years of being with my man, we sometimes schedule sex (is that weird?)... anyway, sometimes I feel like it takes the passion out of it. I find that although we both get super excited and into it (and the whole thing is totally pleasurable), he seems to forget to kiss me and take his time and tease me and whatnot (stuff he used to automatically do). So my questions are: do you think he has gotten bored? do you think he just needs more direction? am I doing something wrong? Help!
-Jason
The idea of scheduled sex alone kind of turns of me off. On a week to week schedule, you think “Oh look, it’s tuesday. Time to fuck Mary again”. It takes away from the passion, excitement and creativity of it. It’s not something you can schedule. It has to be worked into, and it has to be unique; with a partner anyways. If it’s just a fuck-buddy kind of deal, then by all means, schedule it.
