Anonymous asked: hi guys! my question - a good mate and myself used to hook up occasionally; it initially started when we were both in relationships, but kept going when we both became single, and stopped again when he got in another relationship. we've stayed good friends (not hooking up though), however recently he's become single again. would it be wrong of me to want to start hooking up with him again? obviously waiting a little bit for things to settle, but any advice would be appreciated :)
-Kristin
I don’t see how you could think getting back together with an old hookup could be wrong if you previously got together with him while the two of you were in a relationship, unless of course your views have changed. But that would be your decision to make, not mine. Unless you meant the two of you were together in a relationship? Sorry your wording made the meaning unclear to me.
I don’t think it’s wrong of you to start hooking up with him again. The decision is really up to you though, you’ll hook up with him if you want it bad enough whether it’s right or wrong. As long as the two of you are completely single then I think it’s fine. :)
