Anonymous asked: Hiya, I've been having sex with my boyfriend irregularly for about 3 months (due to it being an LDR). He's incredibly well-endowed (not complaining) and I'm quite small/tight. Sometimes, it's the best thing EVER, but sometimes I sort of seize up, and it can be excruciating. Do you think it has anything to do with the irregularity? Or could there be another reason? Also, wanted to say I LOVE the blog, it's so helpful!
-Jason
Well for one, a vagina is somewhat of a “rubber” object. I know that sounds gross, but let me explain. It stretches and over time it goes back to it’s prime shape. Your muscles contract, and over time you become tighter. So that could be it with the pain.
Hm, maybe try masturbating before you guys are expecting to have sex? To kind of keep yourself on par with everything.
