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Why would you keep a condom in your binder to begin with?
You’re on the pill. The whole point of “the pill” is to prevent pregnancies from occurring. You have something like a 1-3% chance of being pregnant if used correctly.
So as long as you both know where you stand, you should be fine. If anything, it’s playing it safe; you’re comfortable and familiar with the individual.
Sometimes. But then I realize that not everyone is going to lack common sense - much like the fact that sometimes people will lack it. I can’t be an empirical bastard and put people down. So I’ve learned to live with it.
You kiss someone whenever you feel that it’s right - there’s no set “time” on it. It has to follow your own morals and principles.
Practice and self-control.
want to completely knock the idea without learning some more first. I ended up having a severe panic attack though and I’m positive I can’t go through with this. It’s the first fantasy he’s confided in me though and I don’t know how to tell him that I’m not into it. He doesn’t open up about things like this much. It’s scaring me so much though. (2/2)
Just be honest. It takes a very open minded person to be willing to do that. Honestly, I wouldn’t be able to look at my boyfriend the same way afterwards, so I wouldn’t be able to do it either. Tell him it makes you nervous, but maybe one day in the distant future you’ll be willing to try it. In the mean time, find other compromises. A strap on is pretty out there, so maybe you can start with some simple anal play. Being open to trying new things with a partner does NOT mean bending to do things you don’t also enjoy.
[…hickey ask continued] and jokingly call me a slut or something like this. I have never had them showing going into any professional type environment where having to present myself in a certain way mattered. I just don’t know how to handle this situation. I get sick of wearing scarves (especially in warm weather) for a week straight. What should I do?
Make up, and have him give you hickeys on your chest/breasts where they won’t be visible.
No, anything oil-based is not usually safe for vaginal use, especially if it contains any kind of perfumes. Oils will also degrade a condom.